Facilitated by
Hilary Giovale and
Elyshia Holliday

Eight-Month Community Circle

Each circle will be intuitively guided and will focus on topics such as...

  • Community-based ancestral storytelling

  • Embracing Earth-honoring, nonlinear, and unseen ways of knowing

  • Settler colonialism and whiteness

  • Rekindling ancestral memory

  • Building right relations

  • Making reparations

Acts of Healing

We will collaboratively engage in activities like…

  • Discovering and sharing ancestral stories

  • Respectfully connecting with the land where we live

  • Maintaining an ancestor altar

  • Listening to guest speakers

  • Writing an ancestral apology or forgiveness prayer

  • Participating in healing rituals

  • Developing a personal reparations plan 

Are you called to
this circle at this time?

This eight-month circle invites European-descended settlers in North America into a journey of ancestral reconnection, healing, and repair. Together, we will engage our lineage stories with curiosity, compassion, and a commitment to transformation—rekindling ancestral memory while practicing accountability and restoring relationship with land and community.

Through altar tending, storytelling, community dialogue, and the creation of a personal reparations plan, participants bring ancestral insight into meaningful action.

Why Focus on European Ancestry? What is the Connection to Nature?

This circle centers on European ancestry as a pathway to understanding settler identity, lineage healing, and accountability. Recognizing that colonization disrupts not only Indigenous lifeways but also severs many settlers from our own ancestral roots, this work invites reconnection through Earth-honoring, nonlinear, and intuitive ways of knowing. As we remember, we rebuild relationships with our ancestors, the land, and the communities around us.

For a deeper exploration of this connection, read more here.

Rekindling Ancestral Memory Circle has helped reignite and re-invigorate my ongoing commitment to living a life focused on actively undoing and healing the places racism and colonization live in my white body, and in the systems that run our country.

— Past Rekindling Ancestral Memory Circle Participant

“My experience with the Rekindling Ancestral Memory Circle was profound and life-changing. I loved that we were encouraged to build a relationship with our ancestral lineages through both traceable research as well as through listening to our dreams and intuitive knowing.”

— Past Rekindling Ancestral Memory Circle Participant

Circle Schedule

Circles are from October, 2025 - May, 2026

5:00 pm-6:30 pm Pacific Time/ 8:00 pm-9:30 pm Eastern Time

These sessions are not recorded.


October-December

Ancestral Altars and Ancestral Storytelling

We begin by grounding in connection with our ancestors, other ways of knowing, and sharing an ancestral story.

October 7 Opening gathering: orientation, introductions & altar creation

October 28 Altar tending, an introduction to story, and facilitator sharings

November 11 A conversation with circle Elders

November 18 First community storytelling circle

December 9 Second community storytelling circle


January-February

Apology, Forgiveness, and Ritual

We continue our circle after winter break with guest speakers and take a deep dive into apology, forgiveness, and a healing ritual.

January 6 Guest speaker session

January 20 Guest speaker session

(TBD) Optional hearthside office hour for continued story sharing

February 3 Explorations of apology and forgiveness; writing as offering

(TBD) Optional hearthside office hour for reflection and support

February 24 Ritual Preparation


March-May

Reparations 

The final phase of Rekindling Ancestral Memory brings our inner work into the world and into informed action.

March 17 Reflection and the beginning of reparations work

April 14 Guided facilitation of reparations offerings

May 5 Closing, Reflections, Looking Forward

Request to Join the Circle

This class is open to members and affiliates of ONE and will be limited to 18 participants.

We ask that you tell us about yourself and why you are drawn to the circle at this time using the “Circle Request” button below. This will help us know you a little better. We will send you the registration link after we receive your circle request.

If you are not already a member of ONE you can sign up here.


Reparations

If you join the circle, we suggest a sliding scale contribution of $150-$1200 (or more) for the entire eight-month session. No one will be turned away for lack of funds. 100% of the contributions will be returned to the following organizations, using a reparations framework, and to our guest speakers as honoraria.

Guest Speakers for the 2025-26 Cycle are TBD. Stay tuned

Since 2020 Funds have been returned to these organizations:

“ I appreciated the integrity of how the group was facilitated, supporting me in taking an honest look at the colonial chapters of my ancestral history. Rather than approaching this history with judgment or shame, I was supported in approaching with an intention of reckoning and healing. This process was deeply impactful. I now feel more connected to my ancestral lineages and I also feel I have tools to continue on the journey of learning and reckoning with the past — both the beauty and the suffering.”

— Past Rekindling Ancestral Memory Circle Participant

Meet your Facilitators

Hilary Giovale is a ninth-generation American settler descended from the ancient Celtic, Germanic, and Nordic peoples of northwestern Europe. She lives at the foot of a sacred mountain, a being of kinship, that stands within the traditional homelands of Diné, Hopi, Havasupai, Hualapai, Yavapai, Apache, and Paiute Peoples, as well as several Pueblos. Her relationships with this land inform her life as a mother, community organizer, writer, and philanthropist. In 2015, Hilary became aware of her ancestors’ longstanding presence as American settlers. Since then, she has been living a process of inquiry that includes ancestral repair, solidarity with Indigenous-led movements, reconnection with Earth, apology, forgiveness, and reparations. She is the author of Becoming a Good Relative: Calling White Settlers toward Truth, Healing and Repair.  To read more about her work, please visit www.goodrelative.com.

Elyshia Holliday is the Executive Director of the Organization of Nature Evolutionaries, a Naturopath, community facilitator, and mother dedicated to restoring our relationship with Mother Earth.

She spent more than two decades co-leading a nonprofit devoted to repairing the human–Earth relationship, a path that grounded her in collective care, ecological restoration, and ceremonial practice. Elyshia now turns toward her own European ancestral lineages—Celtic, Germanic, and Nordic—seeking to rekindle the Earth-honoring ways of her ancestors and become a good relative in these times. Her current work is rooted in partnership with Trees and collaborative leadership.

She lives in Washington state on the ancestral lands of the Yakama people with her husband, youngest son, and their four-legged companions.


Elders and Guest Speakers

Elders Circle for the 2025-2026 Circle Cycle
We are grateful for these Elders, whose expertise has informed our process. They are generously offering support and guidance for our circle this year.

Kunsi/Abuela Ejna Jean Fleury is a spiritual activist, counselor, healer, mystic, visionary, and ceremonialist. She serves as a meditation and consciousness facilitator, guiding others in pathways of inner awareness and transformation. Ejna is a member of the Miniconjou, Oglala, Hunkpapa, and Ihanktonwan peoples of the Great Sioux Nation and holds the honored role of First Peace Ambassador for the Crow Creek Sioux Tribe of South Dakota.

She is the founder of several initiatives rooted in healing and Earth-honoring leadership, including the Crow Creek Kunsi/Unci Grandmothers Society, Divine Mothers Love, Sacred Earth Council, and Healing Hearts at Wounded Knee—a global movement dedicated to ending war and massacre through a shared pledge of peace. Her work extends internationally as a member of the Council of Eagle, Condor, Quetzal & Colibri, and as a coordinator with the Four Worlds Holistic Health Program. She also serves within the Peace Room of the Founding Mothers Movement.

Ejna holds degrees in Nursing (RN, BS) and Counseling Psychology (MA) and is a former faculty member of the University of Minnesota’s School of Nursing.

You can follow Enja’s work here.

Molly McGettigan Arthur was born in San Francisco and is an Associate of the Society of the Sacred Heart. She is the great-great-granddaughter of General Mariano Guadalupe Vallejo, known as the “Californio Patron,” and General Patrick Edward Connor, called the “Father of Mining” in Utah.

In acknowledgment of her ancestral legacy rooted in colonization, conquest, and a violent Catholic spiritual tradition, Molly is committed to working in solidarity with Indigenous communities on projects of reparation—a path she names Decolonizing Our Hearts.

She is the curator of Waking Up to Our Own History and EcoBirth-Women for Earth & Birth and Women's Collective Matrix—projects that explore the intersections of personal ancestry, spiritual reckoning, and Earth-honoring women’s wisdom.

You can find her on  BlueSky  (instead of Twitter/X)


Guest Speakers for the 2025-2026 Circle Cycle
TBD- We’ll keep you posted

“I'm in awe of the journey Hilary and Elyshia guided us on. I have a new relationship with my ancestors and they are living through me. I've experienced healing and movement toward wholeness. Highly recommend this offering.”

— Past Rekindling Ancestral Memory Circle Participant

“The care, depth and wisdom of Hilary and Elyshia wove a subtle but profound web throughout our circle that held each of us as we explored and discovered our histories and mysteries.”

— Past Rekindling Ancestral Memory Circle Participant

Honored Elders from Previous Circles

  • Myra Jackson

    Myra Jackson has held a diverse array of careers in engineering, holographic organizational development and academia. While those experiences might seem divergent from her deep mystical roots, she found that her early training in electrical theory, physics and music informed her inner and outer life. Today, that training provides useful metaphorical language in discussing the physics of now that points to our intrinsic bond with Nature.

    Today, Myra carries the title of Diplomat of the Biosphere with a primary focus on transforming our societal relationship with Nature through public policy approaches that recognize Nature's intrinsic rights to exist whole along with all Her lifeforms. In listening to the Earth, Myra strives to fully realize the aspirational premise of the luminous thread she carries within the web of life (Intra-Being).

  • Pat McCabe

    Pat McCabe(Weyakpa Najin Win, Woman Stands Shining) is a Diné (Navajo) mother, grandmother, activist, artist, writer, ceremonial leader, and international speaker. She is a voice for global peace, and her paintings are created as tools for individual, earth and global healing. She draws upon the Indigenous sciences of Thriving Life to reframe questions about sustainability and balance, and she is devoted to supporting the next generations, Women’s Nation and Men’s Nation, in being functional members of the “Hoop of Life” and upholding the honor of being human.

  • Basil Brave Heart

    Basil Brave Heart is an Oglala Lakota Elder who lives in Pine Ridge, South Dakota.  He is a Catholic boarding school survivor, retired school administrator, addiction counselor, and Korean War combat veteran who served as a paratrooper in the 1950s.  As a young child in the 1930s, Basil’s Grandma Lucy told him about the 1890 Wounded Knee massacre, in which hundreds of Lakota women, children, and grandparents were killed.  She counseled him to forgive the soldiers who perpetrated the massacre.  A dream of his grandma later guided Basil to change the name of a peak in the Black Hills.  In 2016, it was renamed “Black Elk Peak” at the federal level.  Basil studies how quantum physics corroborates the wisdom woven throughout the Lakota language and other Indigenous languages.  Over the last decade, he has been facilitating truth, healing, and forgiveness across historical divides.

  • Ilarion (Larry) ‘Kuuyux’ Merculieff

    Ilarion (Larry) ‘Kuuyux’ Merculieff has decades of experience serving his people, the Unangan (Aleuts) of the Pribilof Islands, and other indigenous peoples in a number of capacities—locally, statewide, nationally, and internationally. Close to Ilarion’s heart are issues related to cultural and community wellness, traditional ways of living, Elder wisdom, climate change and the environment. Raised traditionally, Merculieff is a lifelong advocate for applying Elder wisdom to today’s challenges. He founded and currently heads the Global Center for Indigenous Leadership and Lifeways. His present work revolves much around the council of Elders he co-founded, called the Wisdom Weavers of the World, to bring the messages of Elders from throughout the world to global attention. 

  • Yeye Luisah Teish

    Yeye Luisah Teish is internationally known as a writer, storyteller, teacher, and spiritual guidance counselor.  She is the author of several books on African and African American Spiritual Culture and Myth.  They include the women’s spirituality classic Jambalaya: The Natural Woman’s Book of Personal Charms and Practical Rituals.  Yeye Teish is an initiated elder (Iyanifa) in the Ifa/Orisha tradition of the West African Diaspora, and she holds a chieftaincy title (Yeye’woro) from the Fatunmise Compound in Ile Ife, Nigeria.

    She is the founding mother of Ile Orunmila Oshun (The House of Destiny and Love), a member of the Global Council for Ancestor Veneration, and a member of the Mother Earth Delegation of United Indigenous Nations. She is also a devotee of Damballah Hwedo, the Haitian Rainbow Serpent, under the guidance of Moma Lola.  She serves as the spiritual culture consultant to Restorative Justice for Oakland Youth and the Jubilee Justice for Reparations Committee.  Read more about Yeye Teish on her website.

  • Leny Mendoza Strobel

    Leny Mendoza Strobel is Kapampangan from the Central Luzon Region in the Philippines. She is currently a settler on Wappo, Mishewal OnantaTis, Southern Pomo, and Coast Miwok lands. She is a founding Elder at the Center for Babaylan Studies and is the author and editor of books and other publications on the process of decolonization and indigenization. She is a Professor Emerita of American Multicultural Studies at Sonoma State University in Northern California. Currently, she is tending small cohorts of folks who are reckoning with the history of native genocide in California and the impact on local indigenous communities where she dwells. These cohorts are committed to working on personal and collective acts of healing and repair of relationships between indigenous peoples and settlers. She also tends to a few chickens and a garden with Cal. To connect with Leny's work, please visit her website.

  • Louise Dunlap

    Louise Dunlap is 12th generation of European descent on Turtle Island and 6th generation Californian. She was born and lives now on unceded land of the Lisjan Ohlone people where she pays an annual shuumi tax. After studying botany and medieval English literature and teaching writing in urban and environmental planning, she worked with writers in social justice groups, authored Undoing the Silence (about this work), and began journeys into the hidden history of white supremacy that would lead to a second book. In the 90s and early 2000s, she joined pilgrimages focused on the unhealed history of places her settler and enslaving ancestors had lived, including the life-changing Interfaith Pilgrimage of the Middle Passage. Her new book, Inherited Silence: Listening to the Land, Healing the Colonizer Mind, tells the story of her California ancestors, the land they bought in a time of genocide and the mindset they brought with them from early settlement. Looking for ways to heal their legacy, Louise finds guidance in the spiritual teachings of many traditions and has been ordained into the Order of Interbeing by Vietnamese Zen Master Thich Nhat Hanh. To learn more about Louise’s work, visit her website.

With Gratitude to Past Guest Speakers

  • "Through digging back far enough and feeling into how my ancestors were also once deeply connected to the Earth, I've been able to soften some of the shame I've been carrying. The less shame takes up space inside me, the more room I have to be present and awake with energy to take action and make reparations in the now. I feel this shift on a visceral level."

    Past Circle Participant

  • "The Circle has been a beautiful, warm, welcoming container for learning and sharing. The practices, conversations, and speakers all generated potent heart-centered connection and action. Hilary and Elyshia guide the group with authenticity and a skillful mix of clear communication, joy, and their own lived experience in this lifelong work. So grateful for this grounding foundation for my ongoing ancestral healing and reparations commitments.”

    Past Circle Participant

  • "My awareness has expanded to see how much we all carry around with us from our family history. I am heartened to know that there are tangible avenues I can take toward healing the wounds that my ancestors inflicted and endured. I feel more connected to this path in myself and am excited to continue to let this path unfold, to listen to what needs attention and healing in my lineage."

    Past Circle Participant

Ancestry and Nature

Why is this Circle Focused on European Ancestry?

ONE's extended family has been a majority white community, and we long for the vibrant diversity of a healthy human ecosystem. At the same time, in order to avoid repeating the harms of our ancestors, European descended people must come together and explore our family stories honestly. We have an opportunity to open our minds and our hearts to meet the complex people from whom we descend.  We do this with empathy for their lives and circumstances and with the courage to transform their legacies.  

In this circle, we will explore our ancestors' stories as settlers on Indigenous land. In our experience - as well as in the collective experience - it has been helpful to begin this process within Euro-centered community spaces. This helps to eliminate projecting our ancestral traumas onto marginalized peoples. Together, we will practice becoming good relatives to diverse communities over time.

This circle is not an exclusively white space.  People of partial European ancestry who are interested in exploring their settler legacies are welcome and encouraged to join us.

What Does the Circle Have to Do with Nature?

Somewhere in each of our ancestral lineages, we all descend from Earth-honoring people- those who were intricately woven into the web of life. Over time, many of our ancestors forgot this innate knowing, due to trauma, migration, war, and famine. Our legacies became empty. In this process of forgetting, we began to see Earth and all her beings as only resources. This is part of colonization. The modern environmental movement emerged from this history. It has used archaic patterns to “protect the natural world,” rather than working with nature as a loving partner.

In this circle, as we reconnect with our ancestors, we also begin to awaken the innate Earth-honoring knowledge that lives in each of us. As we heal our pasts, we become better relatives for our human and non-human family.